Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect. (Romans 12:2 NLT)
This is a very vital but dicey issue,this is an issue that confuses people so much and I have seen so many people getting it wrong.
The will of God simply put is Gods plan and purpose for your life,its Gods agenda for mankind.
Man’s struggle is to discover and maximize that will,without a knowledge of that will man would be existing and not Living,because I believe your real life begins when you discover the will of God for your life.
Here in this world before a man dies he should have a written will which should clearly state his thoughts and how his family should run after he his gone.
So God has a will for us his children and until you discover that will,you will not be directed on your purpose in this life.
Firstly you need to realize that the will of God is not found in the world but in the word.
Giving yourself to the study of Gods word,will cause a transformation in your mindset that will change the way you think,the word of God prepares your mindset to comprehend what is the will of God for you.
No man has the script of his will but God alone,so to find your purpose you have to give yourself to his word.
When you think like the world and allow the system of the world to rule,you will never discover Gods will for your life.
Stop asking others to tell you his will for your life,stop running from one church to the other,start digging into his word,so you can discover his good,acceptable and perfect will for your life!